People just dont get it...the abuser always gets off scott free....you have to deal with the lies and b/s they say about you....ive had 2 relationships with narcissistic men believe me they b/s so much that they are the ones being abused. ....just over grown boys that wont take responsibility for their actions
And when you give it back to them and outthink them they can't handle it. Had a boss that was an arsehole for months, after 3 months I had a gut full, he couldn't handle it all being thrown back in his face, then told me I was causing him depression, he always had the girls in tears every day, he thought the worse and harder you treated someone the better they worked, and least he listened when I said that doesn't work, he had a huge turn over in staff and a bad reputation.
Good grief I married one (now divorced) and was raised by one. I was the lost child in that house.